Fear vs Love |Day 6

Hello again! Good Morning, afternoon or evening, wherever you are in the world. It is still a busy Monday over here.

I am enjoying  a 15 minute salad-sparklingwater-coffee break. People are queuing to schedule their appointments still with the promotion for personal numerologies and Feng Shui Q & A … last day is March 28. 2018.

But, even on such a busy day, I won’t miss posting and sticking to my goal. I am really enjoying being here around with you and especially writing for my #12dailypostchallenge.

The coffee is almost ready and since a while I am scribbling here in my golden notebook… Did I tell you already, that the planet Mercury is traveling retrograde through brash #Aries from March 22-April 15, 2018.

This trickster planet could mix up our messages, emails, whatsapp’s and not to mention your verbal communications. Without any doubt this is as fine a time, as any, to familiarize with our communication styles! We already had some bumps with words early this morning…. happily we could rescue the incident. But you better watch your words, as somethimes there is simply no plan B,C orD to rescue.

Doing some brainstorming on this subject, there is an interesting aspect for love to consider. The slow motion of this planet reflects in different ways on our daily life. Out of sudden putting the prefix “re” to most of the verbs is an excellent deal. Let’ s see:

 Fear vs Love |Day 5 (#12dailypostchallenge)

“Hang on! Don’t seal it with a kiss, a handshake or a hastily dashed deal memo. Especially not, when you are in the middle of any Mercury-Retrograde-phase. You could regret your impulsive decision, once Mercury is back on track.

But for any other moment, go ahead”. That generally is the special tip, I give my clients in love-romance-relationship matters. And, together with this, I normally hand them over a small copy with the Mercury-retrograde-phases of the current year.

Here a sticky note just for you:

Mercury Retrograde | 2018

March 22nd – April 15th

July 26th – August 19th

November 16th – December 6th

For the record we are now still in 2018. Working on this chapter, it is the first of three retrograde phases this year. Happily, Mercury will be turning direct just in time for the company’s anniversary and my birthday.

There is so much information in internet available on this particular subject. It is astonishing. From backing up your data, double-checking your travel arrangements, avoiding the signing off for any new project, calculating a lot of extra time to transfer to your appointments and not to mention to the airport. That is all fine! Don’t ignore those tips.

But what happens with love and your relationships during this period?

The other day I re-listened to an audio I posted in facebook about 3 years ago. It has a long list with different kind of tips, but what most caught my attention are the relationship “does & dont´s” , which are absolutely timeless.

coffee talk Kikis de la Creme.jpgLove is a complicated subject and relationships are staying right behind on that list. I remember last year, December 2017. This was the last of a very “inconvenient-Mercury-retrograde” phase, which ended just 2 days before Christmas. Everybody was super stressed. Christmas shopping was hell and many forget gifts and had to find last minute “solutions”.

At that time Ana Karen came to see me at my office. She was desperate. Her communication system apparently failed completely (devices and verbal communication). Also, the day of our appointment her car didn’t start and she came in Uber. She literally said: ” My whole life is like a huge cable salad. Plus in case you thought this is not enough, Miguel just proposed to me. Look at the ring. I am afraid. I don´t know what to do. We have been discussing so much and know he shows up with this surprise.”.

I was very happy for her and explained that getting a marriage proposal during any Mercury-retrograde-phase is a good thing. You have then at least three weeks to re-analyse the feelings for this person, re-define your common goals,  re-structure future plans and of course to re-thing, if this engagement is what you really desire. So, to all of you, if right now you are in a similar situation. Enjoy! In general the dynamic is slow during these weeks and invites to check out all the necessary angles of any situation.

On the other hand,  if you and your special someone (by the way applies also for friends and family) had trouble or decided to live separated for some time, I have good news for you. Mercury retrograde is also the invitation to practice forgiveness and re-connect. So don´t be surprised, if out of sudden you feel ready to meet with this person.

Keep your pride at home. Do the first step and give that person a call. A long talk can do miracles!

In Ana Karen´s case I suggested, that she should enjoy every moment with her partner. There is no reason for fear. Actually, I consider fear in a relationship the absolute killer. She agreed to do the exercise of paper and pen. Writing down what are your feeling for the person in question, is an excellent exercise. Writing clears your mind and gives you a wider vision.  

Time is over, my clients are waiting… in one of the next chapters, I will talk also about the “Ex´s” during Mercury-Retrograde.

For now, I send you all a big hug. Thanks for stopping by and I´d love to read your comments. Talk you to you tomorrow.




You already know the answer, don’t you |Day 4


Before we dive into a longer chapter about a collection of numerology examples, I like to honor here my dear friend Antonio Duarte (he agreed happily to be mentioned here), the famous radio show master “El Palace de la Z” ( La Jefa)

Day 4 | #12dailypostchallenge

He told me once:

“The bigger your choice options, the more complex the decision taking… turns out to be”.

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I think he knows what he is talking about. There is the dilemma in choosing between two or more options, and probably you will not take the “right” decision. Or maybe it will be the best decision of your life.

That´s the risk we all run.

But there are helpful tools to clear your head and to analyze the pro´s and contra´s.

You know already my answer, don’t you?

Yes! Write it down. The promise of paper and pen… and some inner beauty!!

P.D. this video link sums it very good up  ☟☟☟😂


Stop saying · start doing!


What´s on your wishlist ?

This is probably one of the sayings that has been used most by many people worldwide, but putting it into practice is another story. I include myself in the list of people who also use this phrase in almost every consultation. By now, I can say, that I already passed the test and have seen, lived and experienced the magic of ¨taking action¨ in my life and business.

How about you? Have you used this phrase? Has it been an advice for one your friends? Has somebody given this advice to you? I remember very well, that I saw last year this sentences in a huge announcement in Florida. At that time, it popped out as a very useful reminder to myself. I just had been actualizing my wish list and had added the idea that I want to learn another language.

Here a quick reminder, I am German and live since almost 30 years in Mexico, speak fluently English, Spanish, German, French and Japanese. But, I am totally convinced that the mind, as such a powerful tool, needs frequently a new challenge. That keeps you active, interested, actualized and young.

So, I decided I wanted to learn Korean. Nevertheless, the wish stayed just as a wish on my list. Last year ended and 2017 was about to start its final quarter, when finally, a week before my trip to Denmark, I remembered that announcement. At that time, my wish list was completely worked, except the plan of studying Korean.

So, studying Korean language turned out to be not an easy idea. Finding a teacher and school in Queretaro, Mexico took me another eight days. Meanwhile I was re-writing, on a daily basis, my wish to learn Korean.

Surprisingly, Querétaro in Mexico has only one option and it better would be an excellent one. We have so many Korean people working and living now in this city, but teaching options are limited.  I had my first interview with Mrs. Choi and we had like a special hitch. This was certainly a good omen. And I should start with my first class three weeks later.

At the moment of sharing this adventure with you, I already had 36 classes, intensive 4 hours per week and when I travel I have eight hours per week. Nevertheless, the initial progress was slower than I expected. My teacher is not very fond of using paper and pen. Actually, she criticizes me when I do some annotations. So, I was taking not so many notes during class and practiced speaking and listening. Unfortunately, that didn´t work very well for me and I had to find another learning method.

Maybe I am not so lucky in learning this language, because when I started at home to rewrite my vocabulary, practicing the ¨Hangeul¨, the consonants, vocals, and multiples combination I started to do a better job. Yeah! So now I am already able to have simple conversation with my ¨Sonsenim ¨ and study colleagues.

Look, there is no recipe I could swear on. Each of us will need to find the personal and unique way for learning. When a was a teenager I remember me and my Nanny repeating vocabulary in Latin, English and French during High School. This were long afternoons, with some headache once in a while, but practice makes the master.

I am very good in remembering tones and words by just listening for a short time. But to know it by heart, at least myself, I need a notebook and pen. Writing, repeating, practicing this is how it works for me.

Well, and just for the record, the wish to learn Korean is still on the list, but in a refined version. Now it says: ¨1. Goal – learning Korean until Advanced Level II.

I love to hear from you! 🙂 Feel free to contact me : office@topfengshuiconsultant.com


Kikis de la Creme is a philospher by carreer. Since 15 years she also works as a Master Feng Shui, Decorator and Trainer,  Numerologist, artist and author.  Kikis is a professional certified Tarotist, reader and teacher of Lenormand, Life and Spiritual Coach.

She offers personal and internet consultations as well as classes, workshops and international conferences.

Kikis de a Creme is the author of the book “La Tiendita” (available as free ibook in Spanish). Since January 4, 2017 the book – as a excerpt –  is also available in an English version.

La Tiendita The Mini Store

The Mini Store 

Kikis is also the author and artist of the App Oracle Cards:

– Lenormand a la Mexicana “Las Marías” ® –

App in iTunes / Googleplay: App Lenormand

For this App she has painted 36 cards in pastels. This artwork is an “homenage” to Mexico and is inspired by the Mexican doll “La Maria”. Kikis started to work on this project as a personal healing therapy after an accident she suffered in 2013. It is a “naïve “colorful painting style Kikis chose and this work was finished in 9 month. Until today, Kiki has not yet decided, if she wants this Lenormand Oracle deck also to offer as a deck in bookstores or online stores.



Do not wish to be anything but what you are,

and to be that perfectly.

– Saint Francis de Sales