Once the magic is broken | Day 8

“Loyalty isn’t grey, it’s black and white.

You are either loyal completely or not loyal at all.

And people have to understand this.

You can’t be loyal only when it serves you.” 

These are p o w e r f u l words. I like the energy that comes with these lines. Today’s numerology is six and just perfect for day 8 | 12-daily-post-challenge.

Well, hold on! That’s what I thought, early today at 5.00 a.m.. Opening my right and then my left eye. Everything seemed so easy and possible at that time. But now, it is after-lunch, which by the way had too much carbohydrates for my taste. I feel sleepy. But here is my 12-daily-post-challenge. So zero laziness and let’s see what has happened so far.

After yesterdays baking quote, by now you may have figured out that I am a huge fan of proverbs and quotes. They are an incredible source of inspiration to me.  I use them on a daily basis, in my consultations, texts, instagram numerology and occasionally they are the most important consultation tip for my clients.

I go even further and think, that the hidden message of a quote and proverb is absolutely stunning. In countless moments these little lines have been so helpful in my personal and professional life.

Have you ever been in that kind of situation, that you can literally smell trouble ?

Doesn´t like your opinion Kikis de la CremeDo you have this kind of sensibility? Can you sense, that your partner, client, colleague or business associate is not going to like your opinion or vision about a certain situation or circumstance?

I can!

That´s when I get a helping hand  from this “diplomatic tool“!

Early this morning, I attended an on-site Feng Shui visit. The client had ordered a complete House-Feng-Shui- update 2018. They recently moved to this new property and the last month they had experienced a lot of trouble in their personal and professional relationships.

The Northeast sector of this prosperity has a home office for the husband, which we will need to relocate. During 2018 the Flying Star no. 3 is hosting the Northeast sector. This can bring, and apparently already brough, the tendency to disagreements, quarrels, plus together with the current #MercuryRetrograde phase, to important misunderstandings. Not to mention the unfortunate water and mountain star combination (2/5) which in their case, can bring worse luck to them .

But that’s not all. Having that Feng Shui talk with my clients revealed, that there is more going on. The husband has his own business. According to his comments:…” 2017 has not been an easy year for him. He says, it has been good financially, but he had serious difficulties with his team colleagues , plus idea /concept and client robbery.  He thinks that he is too warm-hearted and always give second chances…”

Wow, that’s tough, but also interesting.

There is something very particular about this 2018. The year of the dog, the earth dog yang. dachshund 3 Kikis de la CremeFor me , I have felt a very different dynamic in my work, with my team and how people are relating to me and vice-versa.

It is so far, definitely a much peacefuller and harmonious year . Hopefully, I am not singing “victory” too early.  For now, the ambience feels less stressful . Although, I have to admit, that 2017 was a complicated year for me and my company, too.

Actually, I experienced some severe loyalty issues.

So, I shared the above mentioned quote with my clients and they were very surprised. Yeah, I know… getting such a powerful quote is something special.

So, of course, as an Feng Shui expert, I will give all the details to get the house updated , but it is very useful to do also some “Spiritual Feng Shui”.

… Hey, please stay here with me! Don’t run away, just because you read the word “Spiritual”. Ok, ok, maybe this is not the correct word choice.

Here my promise, that I will be working on another option. 

Getting back to the point… I consider, that talking about loyalty is a very important, delicate, sometimes awkward, but absolutely necessary subject.

I explained then to my clients: ” Please, take a couple of minutes to think about this quote. Loyalty is defined as “the state or quality of being loyal”; #faithfulness to commitments or obligations.

Obviously, this requires that you need to make someone or something a #priority.

In this case, your team members and you have to be the priority. This means, that you all need to stay true to each other and to the company., to the actual working environment. Even when other situations / influences call attention”.

My clients nooded silently and I continued: ” The other keywords I like to throw in, are constancy of allegiance and commitment. This has to be very clear to each member of your team. You can’t just change your allegiance, when you feel like it – when it works best to your #advantage .

I have suffered from #betrayal and as far, as I understand, you too. Once this happens you need to change the strategy and establish new rules. This is hard and painful!

There are then no second-chances.

Once the magic is broken, it is broken for ever. 

Nowadays it is very special and rare to find true, loyal friends and employees / team players. So, this year of the dog 2018 work on your relationships. Review this circle-of-trust! And if you own a dog, you know instantly what loyalty is all about”

Today, I left my clients really thoughtful. I like that! Doing some declutter in your contacts, team, friendships… is necessary once in a while. The dog is an excellent example. Dogs never leave their masters nor do they waiver in their affection.

Please be as fiercely loyal to those you love and are committed to.

Black and white. Nothing lukewarm please. I am signing off now, not without inviting you to stay tune. My clients and I will meet again in a couple days and I have some very special tips for them… and also for you.

I wish you a lovely time. Take care. XOXO

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